Dementia Diary

Finding ways to help yourself and to help others after a dementia diagnosis

PASTE: opening standfirst sentence (e.g. “Annie Chinfen, in Essex, has had a long, eventful life…”)
PASTE: intro paragraphs (help yourself / help others; nurse & dementia)

A rich and traumatic childhood

PASTE: childhood section (Hong Kong, department stores, the invasion, the war years)

Becoming a nurse and trainer

PASTE: nurse training section (state registered nurse; promoted to sister and lecturer; “I learnt every minute…”)
PASTE: the “take care of yourself… take care of others” paragraphs
PASTE quote: “When I trained nurses, I always told them that you treat the patient like your own children, parents or friends.”
PASTE: Queen Elizabeth Hospital paragraph
PASTE: father’s death, the half-brothers, mother’s death paragraphs

Starting her own family

PASTE: family section (Lloyd & the bus stop; spine condition; the riots; marriage & England; Rachel at 41; Thursday tea parties)

Loss and a dementia diagnosis

Annie with Rachel at a community centre event.
PASTE: loss & diagnosis section (husband dies after 50 years; classical music; cancer; brain scan; Alzheimer’s; “I was shocked…”)
PASTE quote: “I asked how I could help myself and use my knowledge to manage it.”
PASTE: Singing for the Brain paragraphs

Staying active with dementia

PASTE: staying active section (Time for Dementia; reading; keeping the brain active; “I keep a diary by my side…”; exercise routine)
Annie at home.

Looking ahead with dementia

PASTE: looking ahead section (fears about mobility & recognition; “I comb my hair…”; advice on communicating)
PASTE quote: “I need a clear voice talking to me, someone sitting down with me at the same level with eye-to-eye contact.”
PASTE: closing paragraphs (“I have had an unusual life… That’s the best we can all do.”)

This story is shared with the kind permission of its author, Margaret Rooke, and with thanks to Annie Chinfen. Please do not reproduce without permission.

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